To the Trump Voting “Nice Guys”: A Few Hard Truths to Wake You Up

By:  H.T., Podcast: Kuroi And Youth

One of the things I noticed about Trump supporters is that a lot of them have essentially spent their whole life as what’s known as the “nice guy” of sorts with women.  You’ve heard the old tropes:  the nice guy doesn’t get the girl, they only want the nice guy when they’re done with the bad boys, blah blah blah.  You know it.

The reason I assume they’re Trump voters is because these are the kinds of people that believe that when they hear “Make America Great Again” they envision a country where they could be their corny selves and women would love them either way.  Fact is, these guys hate minorities, not simply because they’re black, but because society has put it in their head that their stealing their women with their dark skin and negro slang.  They also believe they are the bastions of morality and that all their suffering is for their good hearts in a cruel world.  But a few facts need to be pointed out.

1.  Yes, it’s possible to be a good guy with flaws.

I consider myself a decent human being, but I’m flawed.  In fact, Scarfinger from Geeks Gone Raw podcast has several hours of audio that could easily destroy any political aspirations I have, along with a few friendships.  Aside from that I’m:

• Paranoid
• Anxious
• Self doubting
• Narcissistic
• Acerbic
• I tend to lie just to get a rise out of people
• Sexist and all around problematic
• Self defeating
• And I lack confidence

And that’s just the shit I can think of.  Now looking back, these have been my life’s issues since I was a child.  Now take looks out of the equation, as I’ll get to that later, and just focus on who you are.  If someone can see all that about you along with no will to fix it, can you really blame them for not wanting you?

“But chicks be getting with no aspiration having guys all the time!”  I’ll get to that too.

Fact is, when you’re a kid your parents lie to you and tell you that being the nice guy is enough to get any girl you want.  What they don’t tell you is that along with being a nice guy, you also sweat a lot, stutter a lot and and to be frank, you probably are kinda boring.  Truth is, yes, the girls you liked probably did choose shitty guys over you.  But that guy probably didn’t sweat a lot, talked like he was speaking in front of the UN and kept shit interesting.  Even I know that after all these years.  Again, it’s not just negro cock, it’s the fact that you come at them stuttering trying to talk about the news and other mundane shit.

2.  Yes, some women choose shitty guys.  No, there’s nothing you can do about it.

As I touched on earlier, one of the usual refrains from nice guys is that women choose shitty guys, and there is truth to this.  I spent about 3 days in an anti-simping group on Facebook and regularly read the comments on Ho3busters.  Fact is, men are often hurt by women who lie, cheat and steal and even when faced with a good man, still choose to go to shitty, shitty men that do nothing but hurt them while complaining that good men leave them unloved.  Guys, let me let you in on a little secret:  fact is, some women just want attention.

Doesn’t matter how much it hurts, doesn’t matter what they lose, they just want to be the object of someone’s affection or attention for as long as it’s on them.  And there’s literally nothing you can do about it.  Fact is, a lot of the women you guys rail against are just attention seekers simple and plain.  The reason I repeat myself is because the entire manosphere of PUAs, Anti-PUAs, MGTOWs, InCels, Red Pills and what have you seem to focus greatly on the idea that people, namely women, are capable of being shitty and hurting them in the pursuit of love.  But the fact is that when guys get defensive over this, at BEST you potentially block your blessing in love.  And at worse?

Fact is, the best you can do is just learn to read the signs and hope for the best.  Otherwise, you will go crazy.  Blame feminism all you want, it won’t get you any play any faster.

3.  You may need to lower your standards.

This perhaps more than anything else is just cold hard facts.  Sure there’s ways around it, but that requires discipline and time.  Fact is, to hold out for the most attractive woman doesn’t always mean you’ll end up with the woman that will actually love you.  I should know.

Fact was, I was on cloud 9 when I was with her Ayesha Curry looking ass.  But the reality was, she didn’t LOVE me, she didn’t care about me, she had no patience with me, and above all we didn’t want the same future.

The cry of all nice guys is that women don’t understand them.  Well why not find the ones that do?  Fact is, the line for what guys will deem intolerable in terms of being unattractive as a woman is literally at “won’t get me roasted on social media”.  Fact is, there’s nothing more that can be done to you beyond words and a few memes.

4.  No, being a good man doesn’t exempt you from being creepy.

I’ve had to learn the hard way that the road to hell is paved with good intentions.  And just as true is the idea that the ink of restraining orders is mixed with the sweat of obsession.  Two ideas that the average romantic comedy puts in people’s head is that men need to be perfect while the women can be a tome of dysfunction and that men doing clearly personal boundary shattering acts is ok.

The problem with grand gestures is how we’re taught about them, namely in the idea that that’s a normal way to win affections of a woman.  Fact is, when you put someone on the spot like that, you can’t be shocked if they start to resent you a bit.  Just saying.

Here’s an example of what NOT to do:

See that?  Don’t be that.

Fact is the average “nice guy” goes for women that honestly look like they would have no problem entertaining multiple men because they’re used to the attention.  But because these men are delusional to the point that they believe that love can give them their desires, this is where we are.  Fact is, the nice guys voted for trump because they missed the days when all men had to have was a bright future and the approval of a girl’s parents and you had a wife.  Studies have shown that when countries suffer from an economy with few gainful jobs and a high number of unmarried young men, this is what we get.  My hope is that with this, something can be done to avoid an army of sexually frustrated men from destroying America.