Message From An Angry Black Woman

I came across this blog post today titled Black Men Are The Weakest Male Race written by a Black woman named Tricia X (@Divinethatsme).  Understand this article is 2 years old, but I’m sure her feelings haven’t changed.  So, I want you all to read what she has written about Black men first, and then I will give you my opinion of her piece.

Black men are the weakest male race.  Fact…or should I say Westernized Black men!  They are the only race of men who constantly belittle their own people/women; the majority abandon their own blood and cannot provide for THEMSELVES let alone their family.  To destroy your own people seems like the genes of a weak man…a weak people…a weak race to me.  Tell me how it is that so many men are so far gone that they will go against and destroy their own people/women in front of others and enjoy doing it.  This demonstrates their weakness.

Now Black men argue that it’s not going against your race to go out with other races and it’s not!  “It’s 2000 and ____” as the saying goes; women are allowed to vote, gays are accepted in society and interracial couples are the norm now.  Everyone is different and everyone has their own preferences.  Let me repeat you are not going against your race by dating other races!  (Heck I’ve drank some milk too…mmmmmm)

But let me tell you what is!  Let me tell you what is going against your own people.  It’s some of you men’s justification for why you’re dating outside your race!  Saying that you do not like Black ladies or there is something wrong with them isn’t a valid reason.  This IS going against your own race.  Why do you feel the need to drag Black women through the dirt, to justify you going out with who ever.

Do you feel that emasculated by the other races of men that you continue to ridicule Black ladies?  Are you that INSECURE?  It’s pretty embarrassing TBH.  :-/  Like I said, if you want to date other races I’M ALL FOR IT!  My partner is White and I’ve NEVER heard him say he’s dating me because he doesn’t like White ladies (although he’s had bad relationships with them in the past).  He’s a real man!  Why is it so hard to just say, “I like ____ women.”  Instead of saying, “Black ladies are ____ that’s why I date ____.”  As much as you try to separate yourselves from Black women, we are still the same race, the most we ask is some RESPECT and if you want to date other races, some respect to your own race!

Heck, I couldn’t imagine putting down Black men; I have too much respect for my father, the grandfathers and my HISTORY.  Because for a man to do that to their own people makes them the ugliest, the worst and the most disgusting type of men out there.  No other man does what a Black man does to their own ladies therefore they are the worst and WEAKEST type of men!  Black men who put down Black women have been fooling themselves, it’s not the Black woman who they belittle, make fun of and embarrass in front of others that are the least type of human, but themselves who can do that to not just anyone but to their own people.

For this blog I will turn the table around, I will become these BLACK MEN!  I mean let’s look at this properly, Black men are the lowest type of men, they couldn’t even protect their own women from becoming slaves and being raped by other races (well at least the Western ones).  They didn’t do their jobs as men and are still unable to, (yep I’m going there).  But still they brag about being strong and winning sport races and being strong, well not strong enough to protect your own, no matter how you see Black women!  You didn’t do your job and a lot of you ARE STILL NOT DOING IT!  You probably feel less of a man, all things considered you probably should.  I mean you are the most useless men out there, can’t even protect your own.  That’s why you can belittle your own people/women…(case of bullied school kid bullying a weaker kid).  Other races don’t destroy Black women as much as Black men do to their own women…how sad!  The gene of uselessness has been passed down through generations and here we are today.  Black women won’t say this, (we got too much class) heck most Black women don’t wanna think like this because we don’t want to destroy you any further than you have ALREADY been destroyed.  The worst thing would be after everything that your own women turn against you, even when in a way we should!  Black men are the only men who totally destroy their own women, destroying your own women is like destroying your own family but Black men enjoy and take PRIDE in doing so.  Tell me what that says about Black men, that they are weak, stupid, little and pathetic.  Black men are pathetic.

There is no man like the Black man, the weakest type of man out there!

Now I don’t think all Black men are like this, my father isn’t, my brothers aren’t either.

This is a note written by a Black woman who is clearly disgusted by Black men simply because she’s probably been done wrong by a Black man a time or two in the past.  Plain & simple.  Quite sad & pathetic truthfully.  But hey, some Black people genuinely despise their own people as she has clearly demonstrated.

Let’s begin…

Black men are the weakest male race.  Fact…or should I say Westernized Black men!  They are the only race of men who constantly belittle their own people/women…

Black PEOPLE, too include Black women, are the weakest group of people in America period.  We are the only group of people where an entire system known as White supremacy was specifically setup & designed to oppress us.  Black men are not weak because you believe we belittle our own people/women, Black men are weak because for the last 400 years or so we’ve had countless hurdles thrown in our way to prevent us from moving up the socioeconomic ladder.  We’ve had to endure slavery, the Jim Crow era, the Civil Rights era, & now some have labeled the modern day struggles as Jim Crow 2.0.  Tricia X, name one group of people who have literally been shitted on since day 1 of their arrival to this country as to where the shitting has continued for roughly 400 years.  More than likely, you are probably thinking, “Well what about the Native Americans?”  Well, how about you learn about this little known historical fact known as the $5 Dollar Indian & then compare that to the benefits that Black people have yet to receive.

The majority abandon their own blood and cannot provide for THEMSELVES let alone their family.  To destroy your own people seems like the genes of a weak man…a weak people…a weak race to me.  Tell me how it is that so many men are so far gone that they will go against and destroy their own people/women in front of others and enjoy doing it.  This demonstrates their weakness.

You make the statement “the majority abandon their own blood…”, which I’m assuming you are alluding to the high Black single-parent home statistics.  Although, you would be right in the fact that the Black community does have a rather high & tragic single-parent home percentage, when compared to other races (more importantly White people), there are still nearly 4 million more White children in single-parent households compared to Black children.  Next, you make the statement, “…and cannot provide for THEMSELVES let alone their family.”  I HIGHLY encourage you to read this wonderful piece entitled The Case for Reparations written by a gentleman named Ta-Nehisi Coates who beautifully documents the historical struggles of Black people in this country & how these struggles have had a direct impact on how a Black man or woman can “provide for THEMSELVES let alone their family”.  Next, you say, “tell me how it is that so many men are so far gone that they will go against and destroy their own people/women in front of others and enjoy doing it.”  I’m going to assume you are referring to this elusive Black-on-Black crime rhetoric.  The fact of the matter is, no matter what race one is a part of, there is going to be crime, destruction, & crazy fucks who enjoy doing it because what often tends to happen is…people will commit crimes against their own race at a higher frequency SIMPLY because most races of people often tend to live in & around their own race.  As far as this so-called “weakness”, this is a weakness that is shared amongst all men & women who choose to commit crime period; this is not exclusive to Black men.

Now Black men argue that it’s not going against your race to go out with other races and it’s not!  “It’s 2000 and ____” as the saying goes; women are allowed to vote, gays are accepted in society and interracial couples are the norm now.  Everyone is different and everyone has their own preferences.  Let me repeat you are not going against your race by dating other races!  (Heck I’ve drank some milk too…mmmmmm)

Who exactly is telling you that it’s wrong for Black people to date outside of our race?  The only Black people I can think of that subscribe to that philosophy are what I like to refer to as the Hotep knee grows who basically preach all day & night, Black is right & White is wrong; yet these are the same knee grows who probably secretly lust after White women in the first damn place.  But anyways, exactly who have you been listening to that has been preaching this nonsense to you?  I can’t think of any righteous Black man that has a problem with interracial dating.  Yes, it is 2014 & times have changed.  I suggest you update your friends or list of associates so that you can discover the vast majority of people who do not see an issue with interracial dating.

But let me tell you what is!  Let me tell you what is going against your own people.  It’s some of you men’s justification for why you’re dating outside your race!  Saying that you do not like Black ladies or there is something wrong with them isn’t a valid reason.  This IS going against your own race.  Why do you feel the need to drag Black women through the dirt, to justify you going out with who ever.

Once again, who in the world are you listening to?  Just because you’ve come across one dusty ass knee grow spouting this rhetoric does not mean you should apply this bullshit to all Black men.  Like I’ve stated earlier, upgrade your associates so you can discover a new world of Black people who do not share that philosophy.  As far as you proclaiming Black men are dragging Black women through the dirt…umm…did you even read the bullshit you typed?  Exactly what do you call yourself doing?  After reading your own rhetoric, you actually appear to be dating White men as a way to get back at all of the Black men who have done you wrong.  So in essence, it really seems like you are talking about yourself in this paragraph.

Do you feel that emasculated by the other races of men that you continue to ridicule Black ladies?  Are you that INSECURE?  It’s pretty embarrassing TBH.  :-/  Like I said, if you want to date other races I’M ALL FOR IT!  My partner is White and I’ve NEVER heard him say he’s dating me because he doesn’t like White ladies (although he’s had bad relationships with them in the past).  He’s a real man!  Why is it so hard to just say, “I like ____ women.”  Instead of saying, “Black ladies are ____ that’s why I date ____.”  As much as you try to separate yourselves from Black women, we are still the same race, the most we ask is some RESPECT and if you want to date other races, some respect to your own race!

“Do you feel emasculated by the other races of men that you continue to ridicule Black ladies?  Are you that INSECURE?  It’s pretty embarrassing TBH.”  To be honest (TBH) with you, it’s pretty embarrassing on your part to even concoct this ridiculous “I hate Black men” tantrum on account that essentially what you are accusing Black men of doing, you are doing the EXACT SAME THING.  In all seriousness, you sound fucking ridiculous.  “Like I said, if you want to date other races I’M ALL FOR IT!  My partner is White and I’ve NEVER heard him say he’s dating me because he doesn’t like White ladies…”, but here’s the real question:  ARE YOU DATING HIM BECAUSE YOU DON’T LIKE BLACK MEN?  I’m willing to bet the real answer is an astounding YES.  So you choose to bring up dating a White guy because you think Black men have an issue with sistas dating outside of the race.  Sure a few do, but the REAL reason you decided to mention him & throw in the caveat “He’s a real man!” is because you are basically using this White guy as a tool for retaliation against Black men all because you are caught up in your feelings.  I can almost hear the tear drops of shame hitting your keyboard as you typed those lines because even you understand how you are using this guy.  It’s similar to a woman going out to get some random dick, then telling her boyfriend about this random dick as a means for retaliation because he stepped out & got some random ass.  That random dick doesn’t mind being used like your White guy, but attempting to parade this random dick (White guy) around as if it is the standard for what a man should be is ludicrous because in reality…it’s just a random dick whose main function in your life was retaliation, not long term dick.  So you can proclaim that your White guy is the best thing going, but in the context of what you wrote in relation to Black men; you honestly expect me to believe that you are dating this White guy because you choose to versus you dating him out of spite for what some random Black guy did to you.  Get real.  You’re not fooling anybody.

Heck, I couldn’t imagine putting down Black men; I have too much respect for my father, the grandfathers and my HISTORY.  Because for a man to do that to their own people makes them the ugliest, the worst and the most disgusting type of men out there.  No other man does what a Black man does to their own ladies therefore they are the worst and WEAKEST type of men!  Black men who put down Black women have been fooling themselves, it’s not the Black woman who they belittle, make fun of and embarrass in front of others that are the least type of human, but themselves who can do that to not just anyone but to their own people.

You have got to be the dumbest broad walking the face of the planet right now.  You can’t imagine putting down Black men…really?  Then what in the fuck is your entire blog article about?  Seriously, were you high when you typed this?  You sit here and claim all Black men do is tear down Black women, yet you espouse this same nonsense in reference to Black men.  Here’s the reality:  some Black men AND Black women play an equal part in tearing themselves down.  A woman will only allow certain things to happen to her based upon how secure she is within herself.  So if you as a woman allow a man to tear you down, then you may need to check your self esteem levels.  Black men who do tear down Black women suffer from the same lack of self esteem as well.  But your problem is, you place this illogical bullshit on ALL Black men which leads me to believe you have been accustomed to dealing with the bottom of the barrel Black men probably your entire life.  Further what you probably fail to see is that, your beliefs of Black men tearing down Black women is not just exclusive to Black men…White men tear down women too.  So, it’s probably a safe bet that whatever Black men you were used to dealing with back in the day, more than likely you will be dealing with the exact same type of White guy.  Thinking that you got yourself a White guy as some type of upgrade from a Black man is really nothing more than your classic negro bed wench mentality.  All it’s going to take is one argument with your White guy for him to check your ass to remind you that regardless of how much White dick he’s feeding you, you are still a Black woman.  And if you think a brotha tearing you down is tragic, wait until your White guy introduces you to the real meaning of tearing a Black woman down.

For this blog I will turn the table around, I will become these BLACK MEN!  I mean let’s look at this properly, Black men are the lowest type of men, they couldn’t even protect their own women from becoming slaves and being raped by other races (well at least the Western ones).  They didn’t do their jobs as men and are still unable to, (yep I’m going there).

I suggest you go pick up a history book & learn about how African slavery really jumped off.  White men didn’t just roll up in Africa & start capturing Africans all willy nilly.  Africans initially sold our own people off in exchange for “goods & services”.  As far as the Western ones (slaves) protecting our women, let’s examine how dumb that statement is.  Slaves (men & women) arrived in chains, were beat & tortured ruthlessly, forcefully separated from their families, sold off, beat & tortured some more, RAPED (both men AND women); all of this taking place in a foreign land while being ever present of the reality of being shot and/or strung up on a tree.  During the times of slavery, most slaves didn’t have an option as to how they could handle situations.  Survival was pretty much the only mindset of a slave.  You talk about female slaves being raped as if male slaves actually had the power to prevent it.  Further you speak as if male slaves weren’t being raped as well.  I suggest you learn about the term called buck breaking.  “They didn’t do their jobs”.  Looking back, most slaves DID do their job.  Their main job was SURVIVAL or else your black ass wouldn’t be alive right now.

But still they brag about being strong and winning sport races and being strong, well not strong enough to protect your own, no matter how you see Black women!  You didn’t do your job and a lot of you ARE STILL NOT DOING IT!  You probably feel less of a man, all things considered you probably should.  I mean you are the most useless men out there, can’t even protect your own.  That’s why you can belittle your own people/women…(case of bullied school kid bullying a weaker kid).  Other races don’t destroy Black women as much as Black men do to their own women…how sad!  The gene of uselessness has been passed down through generations and here we are today.  Black women won’t say this, (we got too much class) heck most Black women don’t wanna think like this because we don’t want to destroy you any further than you have ALREADY been destroyed.  The worst thing would be after everything that your own women turn against you, even when in a way we should!  Black men are the only men who totally destroy their own women, destroying your own women is like destroying your own family but Black men enjoy and take PRIDE in doing so.  Tell me what that says about Black men, that they are weak, stupid, little and pathetic.  Black men are pathetic.

There is no man like the Black man, the weakest type of man out there!

Now I don’t think all Black men are like this, my father isn’t, my brothers aren’t either.

The sad part about reading this portion of your statement is that you have convinced yourself to honestly believe this mess, but you fail to see the real problem.  The real problem isn’t Black men at all.  The real problem is YOU & how you simply hate being Black and you’re attempting to use Black men as a scapegoat for deflecting from the issue you have about your skin color & heritage.  People like you are what we call like to call “pet niggers”.  People like you spend your entire life longing to be accepted by the dominant society in hopes that you can get a pat on the head from one of its members.  And the fastest way to get this head pat is to throw the Black man under the bus.  Nothing gets the dominant society more excited that when they see Black people shitting on each other, but the excitement reaches a whole new level when Black women are the ones putting on the minstrel show.  The reason you mention this White guy as a “real man” is because deep down inside you long for the approval of a “White daddy”.  Sure you mention you have a Black father, but based upon your description of Black men, it’s only logical to assume that your father wasn’t shit either & more than likely treated your mother like shit.  After all, your father is Black & your entire article was in reference to Black men of today and of the past…so that too would include your own father.  Most women will base the quality of their relationships with men off of how their father interacted with them & how he treated these women’s mothers.  So for you to run to the rescue of your “White daddy” only proves to me that your real father must have been one dusty ass nigga from your perspective.  You dating this White guy as a means of retaliation for all of the piss poor shitty ass Black men I’m sure you have dated is really you getting back at your own father for how he must have treated you & your mother.  You don’t have a Black men issue, you have a daddy issue.  Your daddy issues are so deep & evident within your own writing that are willing to totally abandon your own race of people all because you honestly believe the grass is greener on the other side.  I mean shit, the best you could say in reference to your father & brothers was “Now I don’t think all Black men are like this, my father isn’t, my brothers aren’t either.”  If these gentlemen really weren’t about shit, you would have dedicated at least another paragraph about how you believe they should be the standard for how all Black men should be.  Hell, you could have even created another blog entry specifically for them, but THIS article that you wrote IS THE ONLY ENTRY ON YOUR BLOG.  So therefore, your father & brothers…those niggas aren’t shit either lol…hence the reason you are so anxious to run into the arms of a White savior.

Ultimately here’s what you fail to grasp, no respectable Black man honestly gives a shit about how you feel about Black men.  Women like you are not needed any damn way in helping to build a strong Black community.  What purpose do you serve?  None.  You can have all the White men you want for all we care.  Real Black men will be just fine without you because we know that we can find a real Black woman who sees our value & worth and wants to help build with us.  Bed wenches like you looking for a White daddy to comfort you because your real daddy was a bum ass nigga….we don’t need you.  All you are is a roadblock to progression.  So thanks for creating this message about how you feel about your father.  I suggest you go seek some counseling & work that shit out.